The conventional wisdom says failure teaches us. But obsessing over failure tends to produce more failure.

Whether someone else’s business collapses, their relationship ends, or they make costly mistakes — none of that is relevant to your path. Others’ failures are not your curriculum.

Instead, study your own successes. When something works, understand why. Then replicate it and improve upon it.

Real learning comes from understanding what works. Momentum builds through wins, not through cataloguing losses.